Got to agree with Silly here. For a guy who is really trying to be unselfish during sex, this is a critical failure. Think of it this way, how would you feel if your guy could only get off doing himself while you watched?
I personally would not object to using the vibrator during sex to get my wife off if that was the only way. What scares me about a no O woman are the ones who won't try to find a way. As a man, at that point all you are doing is masturbating in somebody else's body.
