Have you thought of the possibility that your W wants the kids and wants to play supermom because she, too, is afraid of herself and the bad thoughts, etc that come when she is alone. The kids are a distraction. That could be good because it shows she still cares about the R somewhat enough to have distraught feelings about what is currently happening. Turn the bad into good.
never thought of it that way. Maybe. Maybe not. She's a WAW....
having a little trouble with my PMA... i have the last 4 episode of "House" dvr'd...been meaning to watch them..asked my W if she wanted to come over and watch them.....she gave me this look...and i said what? she's like it's weird...i said...why is it weird, i was going to watch them anyways...she said i know, it's just weird....and you're being nice.
she didn't say no.
backslide? no...because i really am going to watch them this weekend. Yes, because i'm disappointed she didn't say she would come over. that's my bad. GALing shortly....
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
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