I can't get the negative things H said about being in a family with me...that he doesn't want that, but he won't get a divorce either.

I can't get the hurtful things he said about never being able to please me....then he's nice when I am nice.

I'm confused. H says nasty things.

I have to snap out of it!!!

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home