I wanted to say good bye permanently because this is no longer a place I should be. the heartache on these boards is so hard to swallow and i just dont have to in me to be patient and handholding when I see people spinning out of control and self destructing. I do care but i care way too much to be able to effectively be a help.
cinders i hope your had a good vacation and please be careful when you spend the week with your husband. i dont think it is a good idea at all and i think it will confuse the children and will give you false hope. this is not a contest between you and the ow anymore. your husband made choices for his life.let it go please.but take my opinion for what it is worth. anewme i am sorry if i made you defensive that was not my intent i just wanted you to think outside the box.i respect you for standing for your marriage. i know how hard it is to do but what if he doesnt come back. what then? frank i do know how you feel because i have a sister in law going through a very similar thing but i dont think it is mlc i think it is just a life stylechoice. but again i am sorry if i offended you. bworl i dont like you at all and everything you represent but i apologize for making it public. it is your life to live and i have no business to critique your lifestyle choices.amy c i hope you get your [censored] together soon because you cant keep living like this it is unhealthy for everyone.make a decision and stick to it.i dont know what happened to you but your not the same and have nothing to prove to anyone. your life should respresent the same things you preach about. maybe take a step back and do some real soul searching. you may be surprised by what you fnd out about yoruself.take care of yourself.jack thank you for always being the voice of reason but maybe you should take a break from this place before it sucks the life out of you. dar you have to think about yourself and not your husband he is a mess and you keep raising up your hopes only to be let down. it is like banging your head against a wall. let him go completely. he will know where to find you if he wants to.imp glad to finally get to know you a little better. keep posting even if they dont listen because one day your words will come back to bite them in the butt. FIB I think your wife is so stuck and needs serious help. she doesnt want a divorce. but i understand also that you have to live your life. please pray for grace and understanding when dealing with her. she is emotionally crippled.and RCR i am sorry that things didnt quite work out but i have no value to this place anymore my life is different now and i have to move forwards with it and leave this one behind in the past.I can no longer be a resource to anyone.
Blessings to all of you who are here and I pray and Allie prays that for each of your Gods will will be done.
