kat727 those are very good examples of what most couples will go through if they get back together after divorcing. It is very obvious in their cases and most cases of couples getting back together after a D that they did not make the changes that are necessary and face or fix the issues that led to their divorces in the first place. Changes have to be made. A divorce is nothing more then a piece of paper. It fixes nothing. If a marriage was broke before the D it is still be broke after the D. (Guy metaphor)If I do not care for and maintain my car (change the fluids, put in a new battery, do preventative maintenance, etc) then overtime the car will stop working and fail (just like our marriages). If I wash my car, buy it a new air freshener and some seat covers (buy my wife flowers, jewelry, clothes, etc.) is that going to fix the car? If I sell the car to get rid of it (get a divorce) does that fix the car? If someone else buys the car will it automatically be fixed? If I put the car up for sale, but then decide to keep it (get divorced/separated but then remarry or get back together) does that fix the car? The car has to be repaired in order for it to work. WE HAVE to be repaired before our current and future relationships can work. Now get to fixing.
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