I forgot who he posted it to, kat maybe, but I think lodo pasted a link to a site of a woman that said basically the same thing.
I remember thinking that it was a little depressing at the time. Something we don't like to think about. That the WAS won't be coming back and we have to accept that.
I can hope, can't I?
I think so. I argued a bit with Lodo about that link when he provided it, b/c I thought it was too pessimistic. Seemed to say that it's over, get on with your life, your WAS is gone for good. Well, I know there are some people though: I have a family member whose WAS came back and are still married, and some here Puppy, Saffie, and Gfactor for example that have been able to work it out.
I do think Lodo's right that maybe DR is a little overly optimistic, but I don't think having too much hope is a bad thing or I think I would have given up before I began--and I am a better person through this. I really would like maybe to get a more balanced view b/w those 2, b/c maybe the truth is somewhere in the middle. Not hopeless, but some WAS come home and some don't? I mean I think a lot depends on the OP, mid-life crisis stuff, (I think God), timing, etc. I really don't think my H is ever going to return, (don't know that would work out anyway), but I do think God does miracles, so you shouldn't ever completely count it out. Karen
