Not sure why I've waited so long to come here

[Snow White]

He says he did not move out cause of OW. For months claimed they were just friends, but I could not get over his one time infidelity in Dec. He said he was moving into a friends house a block over.

Trying to DB and drop the rope I made no effort to confirm where he was living for 7 weeks. During those weeks he would call to say goodnight to my daughter and come over for dinner 2 or 3 nights a week, take me to the movies, out on Sundays ect. But would always leave by 8:30 and never be available on his cell if I called after that point. When I got the phone bill everytime he called to say goodnight to his daughter it was from OW's town not mine. He denied, said he was working on our M.

Finally one morning I parked outside OW's house at 5:30 a.m. and waited for him to come out. He still claims he was not living there, just there sometimes, but following that he had nowhere to go - not the friend he was living with - nowhere. Then it happened a second time, he asked for my forgiveness, it was the biggest mistake of his life, wanted to work on the M go to counselling ect. For 3 more weeks we went through this, this time he came over every night, had dinner with us, came to my ball games ect. Then again I discover he is not staying where he said he was. Both times I confronted OW, she claimed to think that I was ok with everything nad I knew. BUT HE PARKED HE CAR 5 BLOCKS AWAY FROM HER HOUSE.

What finally was the last blow was her coming and reading my threads online, seeing me talking about not being sure if I could trust him when he was telling me he was coming home, and the worst the night I actually went out after finding him again with her and he broke into my house and destroyed a number of things because he was so jealous. She saw in the threads that he had pursued me for sex and he had been lying to her. So she ended it. He would be with her if he could.