losing sunshine but gaining happiness either way

[LosingSunshine]

Could your wife actually be sustaining from a PA because she is married (or the OW)? It sounds crazy, but could that really be what is driving the speediness of this? I would like some other opinions to help LS with this crazy notion.

I honestly don't know about this but should have some insight next week after I read the txt messages. EA yes. PA, probably as my buddy tailed her one night to OWs and when he went back an hour later, their cars were still there, all the lights in the house were off when they were supposedly watching movies. He said it was pitch black :o. Add to that the neurotic driving she was doing to get over there.

Remember that even though your stich is different from regular DB, you will see the slight cracks that allow sunshine in.

Oh yeah, I see the cracks (she was bent over last night sorting clothes and I got a peep :D. ) LOL! No but she called me honey several times yesterday and this morning, as I was leaving with the kids, she handed me the youngest and I told her to take care and have a good day. She responded I love you and then she must of realized what she said because after a few seconds had passed and I was walking away she said my 2S name.

There is one other idea you will be faced with more than likely if your marriage is saved. It really isn't DB material, but it will come up. I suggest searching the net with a search term combining "Pandora's Box" and bisexuality. If you find something, which I think you will, you will understand.

I did late last night. Very interesting. Will have more time today to look at more of the search results.

Chris