I can relate to some days being a deal breaker and some days not. I also feel that way. Would have to be some pretty good evidence that W would be able to overcome her A if that is the case and W wants to reconcilate.

my stories

M-31
W-28
S7 D2.5
T 8, M 4
W filed 2-14-08
D on hold 3/08
D off hold 5/08
D to be final on/by Nov 08
Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful