divorce is great for kids. just ask mine whome are probably pretty close to seeing their mom go through another one and just saw their dad watch his mom die over two months with no companionship or emotional support at all. not crying about it, just stating the facts. as much as i'd hate to agree with "big brother" up in here, news flash: divorce sucks for your children. unless there are extreme circumstances, the fact is they don't get over it. and that can be looked up in studies. they can be happy, yes. and life isn't hopeless for them, it's not all doom and gloom. but call a spade a spade, it isn't good for children. wake up, quit sugar coating crap. it's getting old. sure we were left behind, but we need to make up to our children for our part in that divorce. the first step in that is to recognize that this is more than just "not an ideal situation". it's good to find the positives in your life, we all have to. and i know that my kids will be fine. i had a wonderful woman that they both loved, who unfortunately wasn't over her own issues and it didn't work out. however, even if it would have, would my two boys have been better off than if xw and i never gotten a D? no
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