Advice from my DB coach #3

[Neilh23]

Remember, you can only control YOUR actions, not his. Don't respond negatively....respond with caring indifference..... say to your H "I'm surprised you didn't come home to feed (dog's name)" and leave it at that. Gauge the sitch. by putting the dogs name in, it makes it a little personal. The only reason you would bring this up tho, is if he brings up why he didn't come home......you don't want to make him feel guilty.

make sense?