SG, Yes, it is personal to ALL of us. I only meant that at the time of my first post, I could not respond w/out my post being about ME and MY past situation. I wasn't sure at the time if that was the "correct" way to respond.
And, since you saw my first post, I still stand by my opening statement...I think you should have started this thread w/ the statements you made on the other thread...not by quoting someone else's statements that you didn't agree with. JMO.
I do agree w/ what frank_d said about this thread.