Nugget I agree about the legal sep. I don't get the divorce thing even though she has explained her thoughs, ending one chapter to open a new and improved on. Never in the five years that I have know her has she given me any reason to doubt her honesty. If she says this will help her open up and start a new relationship with the goal of getting back together than I truly think she means it. She would not agree to coaching, us dating each other etc if she didn't think we have a chance of getting back together. I am taking that leap of faith in her that she is truthful with me now as she has been always in the past.