just having a thought this morning, it is son's birthday next week he will be 14 years old, he has turned into a delightful good looking strappy hunk of a guy he has grown up more or less it seems over the last two years, it is an amazing thing to watch happen to your babies, wondering if his so called father will be posting him a birthday card or even remembering in his history that he has a child out there, we will see. still no correspondence back from him to my solicitor re sons bank accounts or anything, he thinks ignoring it will go away, i think differently. also been told that ex is drinking far more than he used to, dont get me wrong he always enjoyed a beer, now it is vodka and plenty of it, so much so that he cannot get up and go to work some mornings, this is rich from a guy that loved to go to work and was I suppose a workaholic, how things change. I suppose I could believe that this is how he is handling what he as done, but he as been at it so long now I doubt if he will come out of his tunnel, he definately wont be coming back here, also the couple that they are knocking about with from the bar that got evicted are said to be very dirty and untidy, and have left owing around 100k, i see a pattern here it is like ex's new wifey as got them into debt as well just like she has done with all her exes, wonder who will be the next. cant wait to get on with my hols we are so looking forward to it, i think after what son and i have been through we are more than ready for this holiday and i am gonna really enjoy it, in fact I have never looked forward to a holiday so much in my life and i have been going every year.
