HI there! Jen pointed me over here. She is great I have been here since October 2006. X had an affair with somone at the vet where we took all our animals. She knew me well. Anyhow, he left to never look back. He bored easily, and when he was unhappy with things he would leave. (job, marriges). I have met some wonderful people here. Met some in person even.(I have met BH) This place has been my saving grace. Just to chat with people going through similar things knowing that I was not the only person on the earth going though the drama was a huge comfort. I have been Divorced for almost a year. It has gotten easier but I still down days. But what matters most is that I survived, and you will too. No matter the outcome.Take things day by day. Allow yourself to hurt, to cry, or to just laugh. Get back into things that made you happy like the gym. Reconnect with old friends. Make new ones. Like I said, these boards are a huge help. Ask questions, get advice or just plain cry. We have all been there and will gladly help in every way possible
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
