been there, I would love to hear your whole story when you are ready to share.
And I don't know how to describe how I feel about telling people about getting divorced. At first, I was mortified my H cheated on me. Now, I am not. But like the other poster, it seems I don't see the other members of the 50% of divorced people. I feel like I am surrounded by married couples!
I also don't want any wives I meet thinking I am prowling for their husbands. Make sense? I admit before this drama, I judged divorced women. Even more than divorced men. Sigh. Live and learn.