losing sunshine but gaining happiness either way

[LosingSunshine]

LFW,


I live in SD and you can get a D in 90 days. Yes children will slow things down if there is a battle and we want to settle this prior to the first hearing on August 14th or will in a court ordered mediation.

As for whether thee is ab EA or PA, my L and I should have an idea on Monday as the txt mesages she been subpoenaed and requested by then. 2200 txts between W and OW between June 14 and July 10. My L even requested stuff since then. Good reading next week.

She is betting on my past drinking where there are only a few embarrassing moments but nothing abusive and only 2 of the three can be verified by someone else and I don't even know if the 3rd happened. She just told me about it when this all happened. But that is all in the past. There is nothing else bad about me. Sure, I might not have helped out but I was a DAM. Me work make great money drink beer or wine and relax. The real issue was our inability to communicate. She would tell and so would I. We would never talk.

I will search what you recommended her in a bit.

Thx again!!!

Chris