W late as usual. she sat down and was very upbeat, asked me a lot of questions about my family, etc, what I have been doing. Not much personal stuff. It was a very friendly dinner. I ended up buying, even though I was the one invited. We had some nice conversations and it was a good dinner with the kids. Just like old times.
She then asked me if she could have the kids early again next week so she could drive to her vacation spot. Right in front of the kids. I just sort of shook my head a 'no'..She doesnt really remember that I gave her an extra 3 nights this week because I was busy with some other stuff. I havent seen them for 8 days, then I have them for 9, then she has them for 7. I told her I will have the kids for the duration of my time. Her mood changed pretty quickly and she got a bit quiet. After talking about her plans tomorrow, the kids all wanted to go home and spend the night with me tonight. She will pick them up tomorrow.
We then walked to the car. I put my hand on her back and I told her she looked nice. She said, 'right'....She wasnt decked out at all, but I thought she looked nice. So I said it was nice to see her, she said 'thanks'...still the same coldness she's had. No interest in me, no hug, zero interest, limited eye contact. She made no comments about me at all.
Everything seemed pretty good until she didnt get her way on the dropoff time next week. She's still very focused on herself.
So, one event down. Got the one comment in.
What's my next move? I'm assuming its sit back and wait. It's all up to her I guess.
