Wow, lots of good information in the last couple days! Your coaching session sounded great, and she had some excellent advice for you. It helped me, too. I know what's it's like to be a disapproving momtype at times with my H. Yikes!
And Continuing's posts on CD were so enlightening, and surprising. Not at all what I expected, and fills in more maybe where your H's head is. Good stuff.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb