Hi CL,

Originally Posted By: Concerned_Listener
She just wants a roof over her head, and money to take dance classes, and vacations. She wants me as a dance partner so she could have a social life.
Just my observation but I think this where your R with W is heading unless somthing changes.

Originally Posted By: Concerned_Listener
She sleeps apart from me when we sleep in the same bed.
I hadn't relised this part, do you make any advances just to cuddle ?

I mean your W sleeps elsewhere and I presume finds physical intermacy, if that is not available at home then of course she will look elsewhere.

I am not sure how you can find and offer W an alternative that will bring her closer to you but I can see that your procrastination is making her seek alternative solutions.

anyway just somthing for you to think about.

Lanzo