Maybe, hopefully a little reality is setting in with her. School starting might be the straw that breaks her back. Let's hope so anyway. Regardless, she has a lot of issues and I don't just mean OM.
Like I have said about my own H, lots of work would need to be done and I would not let him come home at this point. If he stays like he is now, I wouldn't want him. yuck!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory