I think all WAS convince themselves that OP has nothing to do with the marriage stalling or failing. How else could they possibly deal with the guilt?

My issue is that I need to try to stop figuring him out and what he is thinking. I know my marriage meant something to me and I got 4 great kids in the deal. Maybe you go through the same thought processes. ((((Sue))))

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory