I think all WAS convince themselves that OP has nothing to do with the marriage stalling or failing. How else could they possibly deal with the guilt?
My issue is that I need to try to stop figuring him out and what he is thinking. I know my marriage meant something to me and I got 4 great kids in the deal. Maybe you go through the same thought processes. ((((Sue))))
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory