I would HIGHLY recommend the book How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams... Read it.... Believe it... Test his theories out... They really work! It describes the process wonderfully.......
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret