Eat, Santa, Eat!!! Take care of Sue and Little Sue. \:\) Let Mr. Sue realize he is the one that wanted this.

I have to chant to myself when H is taking on the victim role "H wanted this. I have done nothing wrong"

Honestly, someone asked me today if I would have preferred to be the one that cheated. No way. No way. I couldn't live with it, the guilt. I would probably be lashing out as well. I would rather be the LBS if I had to choose.

Time for Sue and D4 to make some new, fun house plans and traditions...Let D4 decorate her room, take a few pictures, and frame them (print one of Daddy too, and frame for her new room). Heck, paint or color and frame those.

I am so proud of you!