I know she feels guilty, she has so much anger in her right now, around me she is all nice and talkative, making me dinner, cutting grass, doing laundry, once I leave for work, she flips out, yelling at neighbor, "If I don't cut the grass no one will" calling me at work cursing out another driver on the road, or complaining about something.
I don't talk to her at all, unless there is business to deal with. If she calls me I listen but do not speak I just say OK, in the morning before work, she tells me goodbye have a nice day, I just say OK and walk out the door. I'm basically going as dark as I can.
Was rough this morning saying thank you for dinner last night, because once I engage her in a conversation, she keeps it going, "Yes it was good wasn't it, I tried a new way of cooking etc, etc, etc, etc." I just kept walking to the car and left for work
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
