Question for the Ladies Comments from the Gents

[No_hill_for_a_Swimmer]

Sometimes you are the window and sometimes you are the bug

I wanna know. Do you ladies belong to the same union? My David Hasselholf type LGs say the same thing.

A man can approach ladies with all the confidence for months and all he gets is women running away stopping only long enough to turn around to throw rocks. Not all those pock marks are from teenage acne.

Then he cons one lady to talk to him and wham he has more numbers and offers than he can even begin to handle. You ladies have more volitility than the stock market.

Then the cycle starts all over again.

Why is that?

'Guys am I telling the truth or what?'

[dogma]

Huh?

I have no idea of what you speak?

[No_hill_for_a_Swimmer]

Just curious why a man can be considered having cooties by the better looking sex and then be the man of the hour in a day while doing nothing different. My LGs speak of it I've experienced it in the past thus I'm just curious. Do you ladies have a secret frequency where you all communicate and agree to hit on a certain guy for a short while then get him all fat and happy then run away.

Must be fun.

[Briget]

Are ya hitting on the bar HO's?

[No_hill_for_a_Swimmer]

Briget
Ho Ho Ho
No I'm not bottom feeding. Just an observation. I'm not the only one who has seen this. The LGs call it dry spells I call it whatever but I figured you ladies could give some how comes and what fors.

As for bars when I'm out I walk in with the expectation of walking out alone and having a good time joking with the folks there.

[Briget]

Good for you for leaving alone.Ya know some of that stuff don't wash off even with Ajax.lol

I know that when a man comes up to me to talk I usually know if I want to continue this conversation within a few min.I don't linger and try to get a free drink out of them.Some woman will do that.

As for out of bars I'm usually at work or home doing laundry.So I don't get hit on much there.Every once and a while I will get hit on at work.But that is rare.But that is because my uniform is so very unflattering.lol

I don't know what to tell you.I just wonder where your finding these woman.And if they act like that from the beginning can you imagine how they would act once they are comfortable enough to let it all out.lol

Later Friend
Briget

[whiskey.tango]

Very complex question you ask.

You speak of confidence. If a very confident male approaches a female, it can be overwhelming. He comes on strong, so she needs to step back to assess what he's all about. If he continues to be overwhelming, it can be hard to read so we tend to let that one go. However, if she sees him at a distance, talking to another woman, very relaxed, lots of smiles and laughing, that gives a feeling that he's fun, nice, easy to talk to. Approachable. She can get a read on him before they ever interact.

It also depends on the environment. Is this beach activity?

AO

[Briget]

Thats what I meant to say.Only I didn't think of it.

[No_More_Dodo]

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[No_hill_for_a_Swimmer]

I honestly meant the thread to be lighthearted not overly mind stretching. Thanks for the responses. Have a good one.