Welcome Grant.
You've come to a great place. There is a wealth of information here and also a great place to come if you just need to vent, cry, scream, whatever. We've seen it all here and we understand it all.
Have you gotten the Divore Busting book? I actually reccommend Divorce Remedy. I think it's a bit better.

You know of course by now to back off on the pursuits. I doesn't work and will drive her further away.
What is your wifes thoughts on things? Did she want you to get help and come home? Has she filed for divorce?


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."