Wife handed me the divorce papers after our first one on one meeting with coach. I was happy to see her open up with the coach and express herself and her needs. After she handed me the papers i asked "now what"?".She says she wants this marriage over but wants to start on a new positive relationship with me. Again she said dating me, letting me help her, and continue to go to coaching with the hopes that we can get back together in six months to a year after she sees my changes are holding and are real.
I am conflicted with that. But if this is what it takes to have her open up and start anew then i guess that is a road I will need to go down.