I forgot to tell that I went to get something out of H's underware drawer for him(he keeps nail clippers and little things in there) and I saw the last letter I had written just a few weeks ago to him under his socks. The first letter he has saved that I have givin him since his MLC! A positive.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 07/30/0807:39 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Ok so H had to go to the Dr.s last night (has an infection on his leg) and his blood pressure was a little high. It has been for a while. Needs a check up which he is now willing to do. The whole nine yards.
Anyway on the way home he was asking what he could do besides no salt to get it down. Says it is not like he is stressed out about anything work or home. I said you aren't about your parents or our sitch, and he said no!
I wanted to tell him just being depressed is stress but I kept my mouth shut.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Hi Jak. Is your H's weight ok? That could affect blood pressure, too. How about starting a walking program TOGETHER! Maybe your H would talk more as you walk. I think it's significant that he didn't feel your relationship was a stress!
significant as in? please explain. His weight is good. I would like to atart a steady walking program. we do walk once in a while but not often enough.
Got another ILY last night!
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 08/01/0812:38 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I just mean he feels secure and unstressed with you and your marriage. There was one point when my h thought he was having a heart attack and he blamed it all on the stress of deciding between me and ow. So, even though you are asking for more in the relationship it is not causing him stress! Keep up the good work! Now if only YOU could feel unstressed!!! (((JAK)))
