NikB #27 (still tentatively Piecing)

[Rusty]

Boy could I feel your pain in that sitch - NikB!! My H had an EA with someone and then when we were separated and started getting back together, he was texting with someone else. He said it was a person he had sort of been seeing while we were separated but said he told her he was trying to work things through with me and they would not be talking anymore. She still texted him, once when he fell asleep with me at his apartment, and I saw it and totally freaked! All old feelings of EA and secrecy came flooding back. This was before I found DB and I really lost it. The pain is unbelievable and any sound can set it off.

I think you did well even though it might be considered a backslide, but we are only human and I think it was perfectly understandable. You'll be fine!