(((((Lisa)))))(((((sg)))))(((((Jen)))))
Yes, a computer geek, though I can speak some hardware, too. My title actually calls me multi-disciplined. I think that might be the same things as Jack of all trade, Master of none.....

Lisa's question is a good one, isn't it. I'm the one who usually advises patience, and being still. But then again, that is usually much earlier in the sitch than this. So I'm not sure my usual advice is really useful here. I think at some point I have to actually have an R talk. But guess what, I've never been too good at R talks! I would really like to keep it from turning full blown, and I don't know that I can control that. In her mind she has a long, long, long, list of grievances. She can pull them out, and beat me with them. It's pretty much what happens whenever I approach this kind of issue. But the time she is done, she can make it sound like I'm lucky she's still here. My list is a lot shorter than her's. It's just that it is pretty big. I'd just like to be loved.