Hi Grant, and welcome to the board, although it is not under the circumstances you want.
You hve been separated for 3 months, and although I know this is painful, in the grant scheme of things, it is a short period of time.
I think it is admirable that you have accepted and gotten treatment for your addiction. May I ask, how long did the online affair go on for?
This is a great bunch of people, and a great support group. YOu have come to the right place for help.
Lola
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..