I do know that it is her deal and not her partners issue with the lack of O's....she may actually have a physical problem that prevents her from getting O's? Nerve damage maybe? Not sure. I have discussed it with her, but the sad part is, a woman who has never had one, doesn't know what she is missing and fails to see "what the big deal is" and therefore has little reason to see a need to try. Plus I think she is tired of hearing about it and so she is in denial that there might be any problem.
I even bought her a book one time about O's, written by a woman for women who are having trouble...I also did try to explain to her that there is a certain type of vibrator that will nearly guarantee one for her but she has to be willing to play around a bit. She acted interested and said she would be open to it...and then she never opened the door to that discussion ever again, so I know she just simply doesn't see the need. Who would if they have never had one and they don't have the urge to get one?
But she definitely has the need/desire for sex itself, or maybe it is just the desire to feel desired that she needs?
I know she doesn't actually like doing things that are considered slutty, but she likes the powerful rush of doing something wild.
