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Originally Posted By: smartcookie
Hi ((((Girlie))), people who really need to be committed, don't think they do.

So if you think you do not, does that mean you should be?


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(((((((How's it going today, lovely Girl?)))))))


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
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(((((Hello all))))))

I thought I was doing so well... but I'm having a hard time breathing. Every few minutes I have to take in a big gulp of air through my mouth and then let it out. It makes me feel a tiny bit better for a tiny fraction of a moment.

I'm scared.

I'm leaving my home over the course of the next week.

I'm leaving my belongings, my garden, my cat, my marriage, my LIFE.

It's a HUGE adjustment. Sometimes I feel so confident and "ready". Other times I feel like I'm crumbling... like the world is crumbling around me.

I know this will pass and I will be OK. But HOLY F*CK.


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((((((girl))))))

I'd hate leaving the cat..... \:\)

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Ms Imp..

When you move.. you make things happen.

Have you considered seeing a lawyer before you make your move? Knowing your legal rights is critical at this time. Be in the right place to make good decisions. Carry a brown paper bag to breathe in and out of when this happens.

Get help before you get moving.

*hugs*

Love ya, Kumquat!

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Originally Posted By: Gypsy
Get help before you get moving.


Precisely.

Is anyone helping you with the move? Family, friends,...etc? Support (IRL) during this time will help tremendously.

((((((((((Sweet Girl))))))))))


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Hey gfi,

It's strange and it's scary but you'll be okay. Take some time to set up your place the way you want to so it's comfy and feels like home.

For me it was the packing up that was the absolute worst. Once that was over and I was out of the house, I was SO MUCH BETTER! You will be too. \:\)

thinking of you ... lodo


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((((((girl))))))

I'd hate leaving the cat..... \:\)


I hope this came out right.... thinking about it I wasn't sure.

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sis, my thoughts exactly..

we will be OK. You're an amazing beautiful woman..need renovations done where you're going?? Mikey is the man.

You're going to be alright Girl, just think of the move as business..It's just a small road in this section of your life map.

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Hi GFI,

I haven't posted to you before, but was reading your sitch and noticed that we have the exact same anniversary date.

Lucky 13.

Pfft...Or not, right? ;\)

Good luck with your move & wishing you well


It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb

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