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Well please keep us posted! I'm dying to know if she ends up saying something, or referring to the email in some way.

-ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
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Oh, my!
Our cat got shut in S18's room the other day. I got home from work, and didn't see her, but she sleeps a lot, so I didn't think much of it. But, she always appears when I go to bed, and there was no cat, so I went looking. She heard me coming, I guess, and started yowling. I let her out, and she was duly greatful.

Anyway, the next morning I find out that when S18 came home, and went to bed, his pillow was wet! He had to take a shower and run some laundry! Never keep the cat away from her box!

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For some reason lately, my kitties have wanted to be outside. Realizing that they are cats, I have let them. Of course, my Gordo black cat wakes me up at 3:00 a.m. to let his fat butt back in the house...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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If our cat was to spend the night out, I fear there might be a well fed coyote by morning!

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Originally Posted By: istherehope
Well please keep us posted! I'm dying to know if she ends up saying something, or referring to the email in some way.

-ITH


you guys would be the first to know \:\)

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Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
Oh, my!
Our cat got shut in S18's room the other day. I got home from work, and didn't see her, but she sleeps a lot, so I didn't think much of it. But, she always appears when I go to bed, and there was no cat, so I went looking. She heard me coming, I guess, and started yowling. I let her out, and she was duly greatful.

Anyway, the next morning I find out that when S18 came home, and went to bed, his pillow was wet! He had to take a shower and run some laundry! Never keep the cat away from her box!


He wouldnt have had much to do, all there is in the are shoes and jackets.. i don't think he likely slept well..

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Cats are evil. Everytime my mom goes out of town, even though she has someone come over everday to check on and feed the cat, her cat still gets so mad at her that he goes into her bathtub and sh1ts. No kidding. He NEVER does that when she's home, only when she's out of town. He used to do that in her closet, then she started to make sure she closed the closet door before leaving. It was his way of saying he's pissed at her. weird.

sawks, I know you've had an anxious couple days. Resign yourself to the fact that w may NEVER mention the email to you. TRY not to think about it (yea right!). But really, take care of yourself now and get some rest tonight. You've done well. You've taken care of something HUGE that needed to be done.


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Lady is right. I have sent H several emails early on, and almost a year later have never received any response or remarks. Its hard to think about why he didnt respond, which is why I don't send them anymore...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Originally Posted By: ms ladybug
Cats are evil. Everytime my mom goes out of town, even though she has someone come over everday to check on and feed the cat, her cat still gets so mad at her that he goes into her bathtub and sh1ts. No kidding. He NEVER does that when she's home, only when she's out of town. He used to do that in her closet, then she started to make sure she closed the closet door before leaving. It was his way of saying he's pissed at her. weird.

sawks, I know you've had an anxious couple days. Resign yourself to the fact that w may NEVER mention the email to you. TRY not to think about it (yea right!). But really, take care of yourself now and get some rest tonight. You've done well. You've taken care of something HUGE that needed to be done.


Yep I know thanks :)if she doesn't say a word, i will just keep what I am doing regardless..i have been thinking about it, in fact on the drive home..

my thoughts:(Van Morrison)
I miss you so much, I cant stand it
Seems like my heart, is breaking in two
My head says no but my soul demands it
Everything I do, reminds me of you

I miss you so much, in this house full of shadows
While the rain keeps pouring down, my window too
When will the pain, recede to the darkness
From whence it has come, and Im feeling so blue

Aint goindown, no more to the well
Sometimes it feels like, Im going to hell
Sometimes Im knocking, on your front door
But I dont have nothing, to sell no more

Seems like the spirit, is pushing me onwards
Im able to see, where I tripped and went wrong
Ill just have to guess, where my soul will find comfort
And I miss you so much, when Im singing my song

Aint goin down, no more to the well
And sometimes it seems, Im going to hell
Youll find me knocking, on your front door
But I dont have nothing, to sell no more

Seems like my spirit, is pushing me onwards
til Im able to see where, I tripped when I went wrong
Ill just have to guess, where my soul will get comfort
I miss you so much, when Im singing my song

I miss you so much, I cant stand it
Seems like my heart is breaking in two
My head says no, but my soul demands it
And everything I do, reminds me of you
Everything I do, reminds me of you
Everything I do, reminds me of you

I am going to a movie(batman) with a couple friends tonight.. i likely won't even see W today..

Do you think that was really HUGE?

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Originally Posted By: LolaL
Lady is right. I have sent H several emails early on, and almost a year later have never received any response or remarks. Its hard to think about why he didnt respond, which is why I don't send them anymore...


I don't think there will be another, that took alot out of me writing that.. (with the help of a certain friend)

I did want there to be something like "hope we can stay friends" ..ahh too late now

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