I'm new to this board so hadn't really moved beyond posting to my own threads until now...I've been anxiously following your post as I think what you are saying in the letter is so amazing--exactly what we all want to hear from our loved ones right about now!
However, even though I've only been doing this a short time, I can DEFINITELY say that you should not check in with her, no card, no asking about whether she read the email. This would be way too pushy and needy. She knows how you feel, and if she wants to say something, she will. By you keeping quiet about it, you are showing her maturity, showing her that you meant what you said when you said you had no expectations. Maybe after a few days of this she will decide to say something...There is no way that the email didn't get to her in some way...
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Hi and welcome, too bad we meet under these conditions..
I agree no card no asking and so forth.. she knows how and what i feel.. she read it.. i would have liked to have been a fly on the wall.. (or maybe not)..
I will not even make a mention of it.. not a one, just continue doing what I am doing.. if she brings it up.. the door might be open a crack..
