Nothing, dude! You can't mention it. Ever. She has to mention it first.
Yep I know better, letting my lack of sleep impair my judgement, i have come so far.. I said a prayer last night that she would look at it with her heart.. i am not really religious (i have beliefs and do the prayers , and i know that is what helped me get thru the first 2 months)
I have spoken to her today, just to let her know she locked one of the cats in the closet last night.. and he got out only because i went looking for a coat at 6AM.. ..
