She shut the door to the bonus room? Is that the room she sleeps in? Uses the computer in?
Try not to overanalyze everything she does. And, the next time someone parks across from your house and sits, call the cops. Tell them your a "neighborhood-watch" kinda guy and you don't recognize the car or the person in it. For all you know, he could be staking out the house to burglarize. Watching who comes and goes, etc... It's a very legit excuse to call them.
Nope, she uses the computer in there, she sleeps in "our" bedroom.. in the king size..she moved into the spare room originally, but i know she doesn't find that bed comfortable, so i offered to take it..
And yes the next time someone sits ( i know the car now).. i will call the cops..
Usually she leaves the bonus room door partially open so the cats and dogs can go free.. but she might have closed it so she could turn up the tv, keep the dogs from waking me.. no idea..