Forget about goals, R's, etc. You go and have a good time. Sometimes I think way too much focus is on "ME" and occupies the mind way too much vs. what a person could be doing each and everyday.
Enjoy your time with friends, sitting by the pool, going to dinners and lunches, enjoy your kids more than anything. They grow up so, so fast and just be you, the loving mom and have fun with them while you are able to.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Ok...my two babies left...I stayed strong and swallowed all my tears ! D7 was so upset...she said 'mommy I'll miss you so much!' I told her she'd have a great time and that I'd think about her all the time and to go and enjoy herself ! She's such a sweety !
S4 seemed fine with it, he was excited ! Good for him !
H was really friendly. Which made for comfortable interaction. He had a giggle because I had packed so well..he was like 'yep that's you !' We both just laughed. I kissed the kids goodnight and wished them a safe flight and they left as D9 and I were off to dinner !
Great dinner, just finished packing, and off we go tomorrow !!
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
