Just wanted to mention also...as far as myself being HD or LD...
Does it make a difference if you only want sex with someone you love?
If you are HD, then you are HD no matter what, no matter if you are single or married? If you are truly HD, doesn't that mean that you "would" do anyone who is willing that you are attracted to? ("would" do and actually doing are different things...but I hope I am making the point?)
For myself, I can't imagine actually having sex with someone I wasn't in love with, at least on some level. I have never had a one night stand or anything similar. The closest to that I have ever been is making out with someone I didn't know well, but I did know them. It was not a total stranger. I was fine with that (the making out) but definitely didn't want to go any further.
Without the love component, I simply don't want sex at all with someone.
So again...HD? LD? Maybe I only have "committed loving relationship desire" - CLD? Nothing less than that causes any desire in me at all.
