Originally Posted By: SueS
Today when he told me that he might go back to IN because he doesn't have a place to stay, it hurt. However, I was strong enough to realize that letting him back in wasn't an option. I can't bend for him on this. That's not something that I would have done 6 months...maybe even 2 months ago.
Good for you!

Let me just point out: If H was on these boards, and made a statement like he might go back to IN because he doesn't have a place to stay, people would be swinging 2x4's at him right and left. Seriously, this is just plain old Victim Talk.

First, is it realistic that there is NOWHERE in the town where you live today that he could stay? No friends he could ask? No apartments he could rent, even for a short time until he finds something better? NOTHING AT ALL?

Second, just how hard has Poor Lil' H looked anyways? Has he asked any of those friends? Has he applied for any of those apartments? I'm thinking... not!

H wanted his freedom, so now he's got it. He's free to... Run Home To Mommy And Daddy!? Impressive!


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