Hmmm...when I read that "list", I'm still confused about myself and my past...I know I am HD now, and I know I behaved as an LD person during my marriage...so I'm not sure what I "really" am?
I feel that if I was single again, I could go without sex for a long time.
I almost feel that if I am in a fulfilling relationship, I am HD. But if I am alone or in a sad relationship, I am LD.
So which one am I really? It seems to depend upon a good relationship for me, that is the only ingredient that changes my level of D.
As for the list...it is confusing because I have always had wild sex fantasies, but it didn't necessarily cause me to want to have sex or even masterbate. And I am talking WILD fantasies, crazy, way-far-out-there ones....so I don't see how having wild fantasies is a clue to an HD person, especially since having the fantasies didn't make me want to have sex necessarily!
Kissing, oh yes. I always want to kiss, even when single, for hours on end I could kiss. Doesn't make me want to have sex though, whether in a great relationship or not. Kissing stands on its own for me, and can lead to sex or not, but I always crave it.
Masterbating, sure. I was a regular at that. HD? LD? During either times I will still do it regularly. Does the urge to masterbate really even mean anything about sex, or is it just the desire for an O? Truthfully, during my marriage and I was very LD, when I masterbated it was usually out of boredom. (Wow does that sound unsexy!? LOL!)
I'm just musing and ranting...that list was a good one Cinco, thank you for posting it. I think in general that list could be used to identify LD or HD. But for me, I still do not know really what LD and HD mean to me, or why I vascilate based on my relationships, or if that is even meaningful. To me, I seem to have the feeling that even a truly LD person can raise their level of D through effort, a great relationship, and encouragement.
