Then you have also let her know that you will let her go.
Which, given the bad days, would probably seem like a relief sometimes.
It's important I think for her to know how you really feel.
Your situation is not a typical DB board situation Mules.
I don't think you're pressuring her by reminding her that your love for her stands as strong as before. AND that it's strong enough to let her go if she chooses to handle her issues that way.
Always speak the truth in love. That's good advice.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."