I have a hard time telling people. I can't seem to bring myself to say the words either.
I am about to have to change everything at work...beneficiaries, insurance, etc. and I am DREADING it. There are only a select few people here that know what is going on so I'm sure people will be asking questions.
I am also dreading the name change thing just due to the questions. Plus my email at work will change....and I send emails to pretty much everyone in the company daily. I have thought about just keeping it the same.
