1. I think they are afraid to be drawn in by our actions and then be hurt again. I think when they keep telling us how there is no hope...nothing has changed....it's too late...they are also trying to tell themselves. 2. I think after years of no attention, in a weird way they would never admit to...they like our desparate expressions of love...it gives them power. 3. I think the only thing that caused me to wake up and see I really did want him was for him to withdraw. Sooo...we do need to be careful...we certainly can't completely withdraw, but all the stuff in the LRT that talks about GAL and being a bit mysterious...causing H to think maybe they've lost us might help. Think about it...right now they don't have to spend one moment worrying about what things would be like if WE moved on...we keep telling them how we want the R and will always be here.
What do you guys think?
I think you're a smart, insightful woman, Changed Woman. One more time: Woman.
Thanks for this--you're spot on.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
