I only have to show the slightest interest (which I do sometimes for the sake of our R) and off he goes... details details details every last detail about them.
How would interest about his R with another woman is going to "help" what's left of your R?
How about telling him "H, it is extremely disrespectful and hurtful to hear you talk about this other woman, to see you communicate with her in front of me, no, I am not ok with you carrying on a R with someone else in what is still our home, I don't appreciate your behavior and I dont want to discuss this other person while you still live here."
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that if he changes his ways, will he want to try again?
If he changes his way, if he truly does and want to make full restitution of his M, you'll have to see the results first and judge then, it's one thing to say he is seeking help, another one for him to actually make the 180's he needs to make to be a respectful person.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
