So just to ask this then and get another perspective...we've agreed I should come back for counseling sessions etc. every 2-3 weeks. However he really feels like he won't have his free space if I stay in the house when I come. That said, our pets are in the house, and I feel I have the right to be there. If he doesn't want me in his space, he should get a hotel during this time...however we need to budget for that. Do you think I should just leave that point out and mention only that I'll be back on X dates and let him run with the details? My fear is that at the end of the 3 months he'll say he had no space because I was always coming to stay...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!