H4H, how about K4H? and that would solve the whole confusion part of your name (I think there should be no hopes or H's allowed anymore on this board). I know, I know you were the first here! Ok, the OM is seriously messed up--I'm sure your W has a lot of great qualities that you haven't mentioned, but still!!! I guess maybe it is a fantasy for these people that they don't see the flaws or something? I mean I wouldn't want to get involved with me (with the $$$ problems) tho the kids are actually cute & sweet. I don't get the OPs except I think they are mostly crazy people. Of course, I stay away from the OMs (not the crazy people obviously). Karen
I know, I know you were the first here! Ok, the OM is seriously messed up--I'm sure your W has a lot of great qualities that you haven't mentioned, but still!!! I guess maybe it is a fantasy for these people that they don't see the flaws or something? I mean I wouldn't want to get involved with me (with the $$$ problems) tho the kids are actually cute & sweet. I don't get the OPs except I think they are mostly crazy people. Of course, I stay away from the OMs (not the crazy people obviously). 
