Their face lights up when he beeps that horn in a way that he does not even deserve most of the time.
is SO true!
I'm amazed that no matter how many times he's bailed (although she hasn't always known about the times) she still lights up to see him.
I know this is an old topic (RE: make the M work, even after D) so I won't harp on it too long.
There are times/people......that you just can NOT deal with or trust. This makes it extremely difficult to co-parent. If a man is a man of his word, that is a bit different. But when he's not, you have no trust. There's no way that I would WANT to work on getting back together.
There are so many positives to this D, and I realize I'm in the wrong spot for saying that, but this is America, not Nazi Germany. I have a much improved relationship with my D. Why? Because previously when he lived @ the house & we were married, I was always the bad guy. So if she didn't want to get dressed in the AM, it was somehow always my fault. Everything was.
Would I go back? NOPE! Her and I are great.
I am a product of divorce, I can relate to her, but that being said - I wouldn't go back either and if you don't know others situations, you shouldn't push for that. I think it has to be a case by case basis.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
