I don't know what to say about the dance lessons. I totally see your point. It sounds like H is very sensitive about being "corrected". Could you say, Can we try it like this......?
I understand you wanting to be "chased." I would like nothing more than H chasing me. I persued ML with H tonight. I just got back from visiting family for 10 days. He said maybe later in the week. Blah, blah. Anyway, I think your doing great. It so hard feeling like we have to walk on eggshells, right now, isn't it? nik